Maine & New Hampshire Wedding Photographer // A Wedding Photographer’s Guide to Natural, Fun Couple Interactions

As a wedding photographer, I often hear the same concern from nearly every couple I work with: "We're so awkward in front of the camera." It's a common worry, but it's also one of my favorite challenges to tackle. My goal is to transform those initial nerves into genuine smiles and amazing candid moments, creating a fun and comfortable experience for every couple. Here’s how I do it.

The first step to capturing authentic moments is to break the ice and build rapport. Before we even start taking photos, I spend some time just chatting with the couple. We talk about how they met, their favorite memories together, and what they're most excited about for their wedding day. This not only helps them relax but also gives me insights into their unique dynamic, which I can incorporate into our shoot.

Stiff, posed photos rarely capture the true essence of a relationship. Instead, I encourage couples to move and interact naturally. One of my go-to techniques is to have them walk together while looking at each other. Walking side by side, arms hitched to keep them close, not only loosens them up but also helps them interact with one another and to be much less camera aware. Interestingly enough, I can give 20 couples the same prompt and get 20 different reactions. This not only shows personality, but it also gives me a window to see how this couple interacts with one another. Are they serious with one another or are they playful, laughing and joking with one another?

To add a playful element, I sometimes suggest they bump hips as they walk. This simple action often leads to laughter and playful exchanges, which translate into some pretty awesome, candid shots. The key is to keep them engaged with each other, rather than the camera.

Incorporating playful prompts is another effective way to elicit genuine interactions. I might ask one partner to draw shapes with their nose on the other’s forehead. It sounds silly, but that’s the point! This unexpected request usually results in giggles and affectionate smiles, capturing the couple’s true personalities.

Another favorite is to have them whisper something sweet, funny or sometimes dirty into each other's ears. This prompt not only brings them closer together but also creates a private moment that I can capture from a distance, making the photos feel intimate and personal.

I often ask couples to engage in a shared activity that they enjoy. Whether it’s dancing or twirling, these activities bring out natural interactions and real emotion. It’s less about the activity itself and more about the way they engage with each other during it.

I constantly remind my couples that there’s no right or wrong way to be in front of the camera. I encourage them to be themselves and to focus on each other rather than worrying about how they look. This reassurance helps to alleviate their anxiety and allows them to be more at ease..

Some of the best photos come from the moments in between the prompts and activities. I once had a mentor tell me to keep shooting no matter what. Whether its in-between prompts or even after I think it’s after the “moment” has passed, this is often when I take the best pictures. I always stay ready to capture those unplanned smiles, glances, and touches. These moments are often the most authentic and speak volumes about the couple.

Every couple brings their own unique energy and vibe to a photoshoot, and as a wedding photographer, it’s my job to harness that energy and turn it into lasting memories. By encouraging natural interactions, incorporating playful prompts, and creating a comfortable environment, I help couples forget about the camera and focus on each other. The result? Beautiful, authentic photos that truly capture the essence of their relationship.